Wedding Wednesday ~ 9 Wedding Invitation Tips

When you’re engaged, you become a wedding advice magnet. Who needs Google when you have a network of past brides to turn to? People will offer it to you even if you don’t ask. Personally, I loved the fountain of knowledge, but I’m sure it gets old for some people. I do giggle a little when common themes start to surface. My favorite? “The wedding planning process is such an emotional roller coaster!” 

I laughed at first, because I figured I would be different. Sure the first few weeks are stressful. You’re trying to pick a date and a venue and decide on a budget. But the rest would be a piece of cake. And truthfully, it had pretty much been smooth sailing for me … until the 100 day mark.

… Invitation time!

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Maybe it’s because the invitations come at a very pivotal moment of the planning – the guest list is finalized, all the big plans have been set – now it’s time to send out the official paper that makes this whole wedding thing really real!

Since I have gotten a ton of advice from past-brides, it’s only fair that I pay some of it forward. So today I’m sharing my tips on navigating the potentially overwhelming invitation process. Fortunately, with the help of Minted, I was able to cruise through the design process with ease, and hopefully after this you will too!

Start the Process Early

Designing the perfect invitation takes time. I scrolled through hundreds of designs on Minted, ordered samples with different colors and fonts, and toyed around with 2-3 different designs before landing on a winner. That whole process takes time, and you want to make sure you don’t wait too long. Invitations should go in the mail 6-8 weeks before you big day, so I recommend ordering your invitations about 3-4 months in advance.

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Be Mindful of Formality

My wedding coordinator gave me some really great advice: “Your invitations set the tone for your event”. Take a moment to think about the vibe of your wedding, and gravitate to designs that broadcast that message. Are you having a formal church wedding with a ballroom reception? Stick to a classic template with more traditional wording. How about a barn wedding with a short and sweet ceremony? Think about relaxing the language a bit. Regardless, you should still plan to spell out all the details on your invite, including the full location address and time of day.

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Channel Your Wedding Style

Much like I mentioned in my save-the-dates post, your invitations give your guests a taste of your style as a couple, and what to expect at your wedding. Consider incorporating your wedding colors, different fonts you like, or even your new monogram. Whatever you decide, services like Minted make it easy to carry that aesthetic throughout your wedding paper suite, including escort cards, programs, and menus.

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Decide What’s Important

You can include as much or as little information as you’d like, but remember, each additional piece of paper adds weight and postage! We chose to include three inserts along with the main invite: a reception card, an RSVP card, and a details card. The details card was a catch-all, directing everyone to our wedding website (www.becomingbukowski.com), but also listing our hotel accommodations and gift registry information.

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Solicit Feedback

If you and your husband-to-be are getting some financial help from your parents or other loved ones, you should consider their opinions on the invitations wording. Maybe they want to be mentioned by name, or would like to be addressed more formally or informally. Something that doesn’t seem important to you may be important to them. It’s not worth risking the hurt feelings, plus it ensures that everyone feels appreciated in the planning process.

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Choose Recipient Address Printing

I don’t care how good your handwriting is, no one wants to address 100+ envelopes. Minted offered the option of uploading your address book and personalizing the envelopes. This was a major time saver, and the text perfectly matched the design of our invitations! To keep with wedding tradition, make sure to use formal naming convention, and fully spell out each recipient’s address. We also chose to print OUR addresses on the return envelopes, which will make life even easier for our RSVPing guests.

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Weigh Before You Pay!

Like I said, all these inserts add weight to your envelope. The worst thing you can do is order some fun, customized stamps, and mail your invites without enough postage! You should assemble a full invitation suite and weigh it before ordering any postage. Anything over an ounce will need extra postage (we used 70 cent stamps).

Don’t forget to stamp the return envelopes as well. You want to make the RSVP process as seamless as possible for your guests. Lastly, you should do your research for any international guests. Outbound invites will need extra global postage depending on the country, and return envelopes will not work with U.S. stamps (so leave them blank).

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 Be Sure You Count

Double and triple check your invitations to the master list before sending them out. You would hate to accidentally leave out Grandma Mae’s invite! This also serves as a great last minute check of all names and address spellings.

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Celebrate!

Once your invites are in the mail, pop the champagne and celebrate! Your wedding is right around the corner, and this final stretch is going to fly by.

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Major thank you to Minted for partnering on this post. As always, all opinions are my own.

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25 Comments

  • Reply July 29, 2017

    Kimberly Smith

    These are absolutely gorgeous!

  • Reply July 29, 2017

    Ashley DTKAustin

    Such great tips! Wedding invites were something I always had trouble with when planning my wedding!

  • Reply July 30, 2017

    Jenna Colgrove

    you have such amazing taste!!

  • Reply July 30, 2017

    Tif

    These are all such great tips! I think invitations can be so stressful because they DO set the tone for the wedding. Plus the wording can be such a hassle.

  • Reply July 30, 2017

    Jessica

    First, loving this post! Even though I’ve been married for awhile, your tips can help anyone planning a big party too! xo, Jessica

  • Reply July 30, 2017

    ashley houston

    Great tips! Love how your invitations turned out

  • Reply July 30, 2017

    Erin

    Oh how beautiful! I love wedding invites!

  • Reply July 30, 2017

    Jessica

    Loved this post! I HIGHLY recommend that people start super early! You never know when there will be delays.
    xo Jessica

  • Reply July 31, 2017

    Anna

    These invitations are so lovely!!

  • Reply July 31, 2017

    Jill

    Those are so beautiful- and your photos are simply gorgeous!! Thanks for sharing! XO

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